When was the last time you considered your own mortality? Or more pointedly, the finite amount of time you have left? Whenever I look at this photo of three friends, who passed far too early, these questions come to mind.
In his compelling book Die With Zero, Bill Perkins advocates for a life lived to the fullest, emphasizing the importance of enjoying life when we have the most potential for experiences. He contends that our habit of saving for a "rainy day" often leads to dying with untapped resources that could have brought us immense joy and fulfillment.
This idea, coupled with the Latin adage 'memento mori'—which translates to 'remember you must die'—serves as a potent reminder of our mortality, encouraging a reflective stance on our current living habits.
The concept of 'memento mori' is particularly impactful because of the lasting reminder it leaves us with. Being faced with the reality of our mortality compels us to consider the quality of our present life.
Unfortunately, for many, the realization that our time on Earth is limited comes too late. As Bronnie Ware highlights in The Five Regrets of the Dying, we often neglect the paths that would have brought us the most satisfaction until it's beyond our reach.
To harness the wisdom this insight provides, consider the following approaches:
- Establishing Our Foundation: Life's upheavals can unsettle us, but the principle of 'memento mori' can recenter our focus to the present moment. Acknowledging our unknown expiry date encourages us to live fully, seeing challenges as opportunities for growth and resilience.
- Auditing Our Time Usage: When was the last time you reviewed how you've been spending your time? Dedicate a moment to reflect on the past month—have your actions deliberately aimed towards a fulfilled life, or have you been caught in the current of routine? Simple, mindful adjustments can seed significant changes.
- Practicing Genuine Gratitude: Implementing negative visualization, as practiced by the Stoics, can cultivate a deeper appreciation for life's gifts. By imagining our lives without the blessings we often overlook—like our health, loved ones, or even time itself—we can foster a profound sense of gratitude for what we do have.
The trap of routine can make us complacent, lulling us into a false sense of immortality. Actively reminding ourselves of our finite existence is a crucial strategy to sift through life's distractions and prioritize what truly matters.
And remember, when in doubt… Pause. Breathe. And Quiet the Noise.